How do you meet the person of your dreams?
Fate has a sneaky way of just bringing them to you. You could meet them while you’re on vacation and he’s your diving instructor from London. You could meet them by the hallway in your school and you smile at each other. Just a simple text or a comment on Facebook could bring something wonderful into your life. It doesn’t take much to find out that this person is going to be very special. You will feel it inside you, believe me. The tiniest flame can turn burst into a roaring fire.
Have you ever tried to convince a girl that you like or love her?
Forget about all the romantic gestures that men do when we court women. Flowers? Chocolates? Jewelry? Try getting her something that you noticed she needs. She writes a lot, get her some paper and a pen. She’s hungry, cook for her (even if you suck at it) or get her ice cream. She goes to bed very late because of work, wait with her and keep her company. These little things that you do for her, she will never forget it. Guys, you don’t need fireworks to show a person that they are the biggest blessing in your life, but that not an excuse to let the romance go away. Go out and have a fancy dinner once in a while, it’s not so bad.
Have you ever fought with your partner over the littlest thing?
She got mad because you made a comment on your friend’s Facebook page. She got pissed when you were late for a few minutes because you were tied up at work. She ignores you because you forgot to greet her “happy monthsary” (what more if you forgot the annivesary?). She got jealous when you went jogging with another girl, even if that girl is a guy in your mind. It doesn’t matter what you think, she will react to it instantly and it won’t be so nice but guys be patient because she’s worth it. She only reacts that way because she is afraid of losing you. You are that important to her that she becomes irrational sometimes. There is no perfect relationship on this planet. If things were always OK, they would become very boring and trust me guys, you don’t want it to become boring.
Have you ever tried to understand women?
DON’T! Women are very difficult to figure out. They will say its ok when it’s not. They will want one thing and then a few minutes later decide that they want something else. They are unstable, especially when it’s their special time of the month. They love shopping while we love playing basketball or computer games. The way they think is totally different from us guys. We are all human beings but our minds are worlds apart. I will tell you one thing though, the little things matter to them. The little things are the biggest ones in their eyes.
To those in relationship, friendships, marriages, and whatever kind of situation you are in with a person, everything matters. Do what you can and more for that person because you might never find another.
